Antonio “Tony” Incognito
elevated Yi84x February 17, 1963 ~ October 31, 2025
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Wednesday, November 5, 2025 from 4-8 p.m.
Holy Cross Catholic Funeral Home
211 Langstaff Road East, Thornhill, Ontario, L3T 3Z6
elevated Yi84x Funeral Mass
Thursday, November 6, 2025 at 10:30 a.m.
Chapel of St. Joseph at Holy Cross Catholic Funeral Home
211 Langstaff Road East, Thornhill, Ontario, L3T 3Z6
elevated Yi84x Entombment
Holy Cross Catholic Cemetery – Holy Trinity Mausoleum
8361 Yonge Street Thornhill, Ontario, L3T 3Z6
elevated Yi84x Obituary
It is with heavy hearts and a profound sense of loss that we announce the peaceful passing of Antonio “Tony” Incognito on October 31, 2025 at the age of 62. He was surrounded by his loving family at Sunnybrook Hospital. Born on February 17, 1963, in the beautiful town of Patti, in the Province of Messina, Sicily, Italy, to his late parents, Rosario and Maria. Beloved husband of Lorraine for 37 years. Loving father of Anthony (Ellen) and Amanda (Luca). Proud Nonno of Isabelle, Juliette, and Adam. Loving brother of Rina (Mark). Tony will be sadly missed and held dear in the hearts of his many extended family and friends. He will be lovingly remembered and never forgotten.
elevated Yi84x Tony’s lifelong love of sports shaped not only his own life but also the values he instilled in his children. He believed that teamwork, discipline, and perseverance learned through sport were essential for personal growth and happiness.
elevated Yi84x In honour of his passion for athletics and his dedication to helping his children thrive through sport, memorial donations may be made to Canadian Tire Jumpstart Charities
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Dear Anthony and family,
Our deepest condolences on the passing of your dear father . May he rest in peace and watch over you and your family.
Thinking of you during this difficult time.
The Ruscitti Family
Rest in peace
Wonderful teammate,
Wonderful person.
He will be sadly missed.
Rest in peace brother
Rest in peace bud.your Dad or nonno was good person
Tony was a sweet soul who had so much fight in him. He didn’t want to say good bye. But as sad as this is, he’s now at peace. Remember only the good. My condolences to you Lorraine and the entire family. Love Maria
Dear Anthony,Ellen and Family members,We are so very sorry to hear of your Dad’s passing.You all will miss him beyond belief.Take care and know we are thinking of you.Love Uncle Thane&Aunt Marilyn
I will always remember Tony as one of the best athletes to come out of St. Brigid’s CS and anyone who knew Tony, will attest to the same. RIP Tony . Condolences to the family.
We are so sorry to hear of Tony’s passing. May he rest in peace and may all of you find the strength to deal with this terrible loss.
We offer our deepest condolences on Tony’s passing. May you find comfort and peace during this difficult time.
RIP Tony
Condolences to the family
It with a sad heart that we give our condolences to the Incognito
family. Tony was a gentle and kind person who will be missed by all who knew him. May he find peace and may the family find peace knowing that he is in a better place. Love to Lorraine and the family.
My condolences (from a St. Brigid’s alumni) to the Incognito family on the passing of Tony. I will remember him as a dedicated student & athlete.
Our thoughts and prayers go out to the Incognito family. Lorraine, Amanda, Anthony, we are so incredibly sorry to hear of Tony’s passing. You are all a testament of his love and light. Sending you all our love and our most sincere condolences. May you all find peace, strength, and comfort in this time.
Sai and Praveen.
Dear Anthony, Ellen and extended family:
We wish to express our deepest sympathies on the passing of your precious father and Nonno. May be rest in peace now and may your cherished memories together with him hold your hearts as you grieve his profound loss. Sending big hugs!
Karen and Kevin
We are so sorry to hear of Tony’s passing.He was a good Friend. It was a pleasure working with him for 25 years.We will miss him greatly.May he rest in peace in the house of the Lord. Condolences to lorraine and the rest of the family. may god give you strength to deal with your great loss.
It breaks our hearts all over again to see Tony’s photo in this way. Our deepest condolences to Lorraine, their children and their grandchildren. Sometimes we have a choice in the way we grieve, and sometimes it comes to us based on the way the person lived their lives.
As a result, we cannot help but smile when we think of Tony. We did business together, but we also had wonderful conversations about so many things. He was so proud of his grandbabies and shared their photos with great joy.
We spoke of his early years, playing sports and he shared photos of himself as a teenager playing basketball. Oh those legs!
Because of the man he was, the love of family he had, and his wonderful sense of humour, we cannot help but smile when we think of him even though the loss is so fresh.
His family does him proud by having donations go to Jumpstart. We will happily make a donation in his memory.
To paraphrase Winnie the Pooh,,” How lucky are we to have had someone who makes it so hard to say goodbye”.
With love and condolences
My deepest condolences to Lorraine, Anthony and Amanda for your loss. Tony was a great human being and a wonderful neighbour. He will be missed. God bless your family and may He give you strength. May Tony rest in peace.
Tony was one of the most skilled, smartest High School basketball players that I ever coached. And he was a terrific person. My full condolences.
Mike Quigley
Sad to hear this news.. Tony was an exceptional athlete.. watching him play basketball at St. Brigid’s C.S. made you proud that he was ours. My condolences to his family. God bless you brother.
May God heal and console you all. Rest in the eternal arms of God, Tony.
Neighbors, Margaret and Gilles Tomasso
Dear Amanda ,
Please accept our deepest condolence on the passing of Dad, and kindly pass on our condolences to your Mom & brother. We have worked together for over 25 years and even during his illness he still was a fighter and worked hard doing the deals and always calling me to make sure everything is in order. We will miss him dearly.
May his soul rest in peace.
Olga, Grace & Sara
My deepest condolences to the family!
In our early years working together I always saw Tony acting with utmost integrity to all his clients, friends and family, always putting their best interests before his own. I have endeavered to practice what he taught. My most sincere condolences to Lorraine and the family, hold close all the wonderful memories you’ve made.
May he rest in peace
Our deepest condolences to the family. Sad to lose a good colleague. Sending you lots of love and strength.
I’m deeply saddened to hear about Tony’s passing. He was a true professional and a highly respected colleague at HomeLife. My heartfelt condolences go out to his family. May his soul rest in peace and light.
Sorry to hear the news, please accept my condolences
I’m so sorry for your loss. My deepest condolences to you and your family during this difficult time.
Lorraine, Anthony and Amanda we are so sorry for the loss of your husband & father our deepest condolences
to the entire family.
Such awful news. The Sikura family will remember him as a true gentleman.
Glenn, Lorie and Tyler Sikura